Relationships are a new adventure. You know how you always say, I wish I knew what I know now when I was a teenager, dating, and figuring boys out. When you get divorced, you're single and you have the "know then what you know now." But it's still not easy and walking the talk can be hard.
I've been dating this guy and we went through the happy to be with you all the time stage...blah, blah, blah. Today he turned me down to come and help him with something he really needs help with. It hurt my feelings because it was a really lame excuse. He said he was a giver, not a taker--thus the decline. Really? It's been dwindling; I've seen it coming. The excitement has been waning. You know that stage when you start getting back to what you were before him? The thing is, I think I was a lot more into him then he was into me. So when he turned me down, I decided to just cut the ties. A little brash you think? I think I was just reading what he was writing on the wall. I gave him--well text him the "I think we should be friends."
Maybe I'm lame. Maybe the one thing I learned was to quit before you get fired. Maybe I'll regret my "hasta lluego" text tomorrow. But I really think I just got a jump start on the inevitable, because he's really not that into me.
2 comments:
Liz, You crack me up you are such a talented writer. I agree with you quit before you get fired.... especially if its just for playing games. I miss the good ol' days!
Boys are dumb. Enough said.
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